Brother, I often advise that you should make your intentions known to a woman from the start.
You know, let her have an idea of what you want from her from the onset.

However, this doesn't mean you should be so direct with women via words.

For instance, telling a lady blatantly you want her to be your girlfriend on the first date is a wrong move.

Or telling a lady you just want to have sex with her is a bad bad move.

The thing is, when you're so explicit with woman, you deprive them of "intrigue and suspense," which are important ingredients in seduction and attraction.

One of the things that make James Bond character so alluring to women is that the mystery which surrounds him supplies women with this constant feeling of intrigue and suspense.

I mean, if you're sure of what's going to happen in a movie, it loses the suspense appeal to you and you kinda lose interest in the movie.

Same with women.

If a woman knows 100% from the first date that you want to make her your girlfriend or wife or sex mate because you clearly told her that, she would likely see you as uninteresting and might start *posting* you (unless there's a material benefit she sees she can get from you), then she turns you to a Maga.

So when I say you should make your intentions known to a woman from the onset what I mean is this:

If your intention is to make her your girlfriend, you shouldn't act as if you just want to be her friend. You know by being all nice, texting and calling frequently acting all caring and platonic.

That's one of the fastest way you end up in a girl's friend zone bro.

Rather you should show your true intentions by asking her out on a romantic date, flirting with her (you know touching and seductively looking into her eyes as you two have deep conversations), going for a kiss and the rest.

The thing is, when you flirt with a new girl, she knows definitely that you didn't come to be just her friend. However you're still giving her that feeling of "intrigue and suspense" because she doesn't really know what exactly you want.

She would be like:

"I know he finds me attractive with the way he looks at me, touches me and pays attention to little details about me. But what does he really want? Does he like me enough to date me? Or is this just a fling? Well, let's see how it goes."

And this keeps her being interested in you and 
getting attracted to you even more until she herself starts pushing for commitment from you.

When it reaches that point, you will notice she starts acting like a mum to you, you know, trying to take care of you. 

And you'll also start hearing questions and statements like:

• Leave me jor. I'm not your girlfriend.
• What are we? (Usually as you're escalating for sexual intimacy)
• Stop kissing me o. Only couples kiss. So are we one?

When it reaches this point, all you've to do for her to be your girl is to affirm to her that she's your bae. 
And it's that day she'll run and mark as you guys' anniversary.

Lol😂

Anyway, these things shouldn't be that complicated.

So brother, show girls your true intention, but that doesn't mean you've to blatantly tell them what you want from them.

It doesn't usually go well when you do that.

Peace ✌🏿

Timbel