What's the best impression to give a woman you're in a relationship with?

Some guys (the hopeless romantics) say it's best to give your woman the impression that you love her more than any other thing in the world, and letting her know you can't live without her.

In a fair and perfect world bro, this would be the best impression to give women.

However, we live in an unfair and imperfect world, so this impression doesn't usually work.

When you give your woman this feeling, what you're actually doing is you're putting her on pedestal.

That is, you're indirectly telling your woman that she has a higher mate value than you.

And trust me bro, that's the last impression you want to give a woman.

The thing is, women practice hypergamy naturally.

So they often stick with men who they believe have a higher mate value than them.

So when you give your woman that impression,  she's likely going to start taking you for granted, treating you like a doormat and may end up cheating on you and leaving you.

Now, there are other set of guys who believe that it's best to give the woman you're dating the impression that whether she stays or goes in your life, you don't give a rat's ass.

This advice usually comes from guys who take this "alpha-male" thingy a bit to the extreme.

I don't know how someone thinks that making your woman feel taken for granted is the best.

Women are human beings with feelings and emotional needs, and if you neglect her emotions and feelings for too long, she'll cheat on you or leave you entirely.

So if you love your woman and want her to stay, please don't give her the attitude that you don't care if she stays or leaves your life.

I know you might be wondering:

"What's now the best impression to give the lady I'm in a relationship with?"

Chilax bro, I'll tell.

The thing is, when it comes to women and a lot of things in life, it's always best to avoid the extremes.

Placing your woman on pedestals and giving her the feeling that you can't live without her for a second, is an extreme.

Also, treating her like trash and taking her for granted is another extreme.

So the best way is simle (as always); Avoid the extremes.

That is, don't place her on pedestals, but don't also take her for granted.

In other words, the best impression to give your woman is to let her know you appreciate and you're grateful for the fact that she's in your life, however, if she decides to leave, you would still thrive without her.

So how can you give a lady this impression?

It's definitely not by saying these words to her.

Come on bro! Sometimes we overestimate the power of words, you know.

So in this case, it's your attitude (that is, your action or inaction) that would efficiently relay this to her.


How to Appreciate Your Woman


1) Defend Her In Public.

Even if your woman fucks up, defend her in public first, then you can caution her in private. Never badmouth your woman in front of friends or foes. This shows her you value her.


2) Don't forget her Special Days.

Some men might not care a lot about their birthdays, anniversaries or about valentine...but most women cherish it so much. So it's likely your woman does too.

So try and make those days special for her. You mustn't break the bank for this, but just let her feel you put an effort to it.


3) Be Romantic.

There are a lot of definitions of being romantic. But personally, what I feel "being romantic" is, is being unpredictable, you know, being spontaneous.

See what I mean here.

I don't feel sending good morning texts to a girl everyday is romantic, rather sending one out of the blue is.

Same way I don't think buying your girl gifts frequently is being romantic, but buying them unexpectedly and adding a story like, "Hey bae, I saw this necklace and its beauty reminded of your pretty-pretty smile, so I decided to get it for the love of my life who has made my life the most beautiful," is romantic.

Now, I'm not trying to suggest that my definition of "being romantic" is the only true one. Far from that!

I just want you to know that when I say you should be romantic, that's what I'm referring to.

So one of the ways to appreciate your woman is to spontaneously send her a sweet text.

Something like this:

"Hey (pet name), since you came into my life, I've been happier, merrier and luckier. I just wanted to let you know that you mean a lot to me my (pet name) and that I loveee you."

Just randomly send this kind of text to your bae, and see the results.

Don't thank me, thank God! Lol


4) Seduce Her.

One of the best ways to appreciate your woman is to make her feel like a woman. Yeah, read that previous line again. Now write it down somewhere.

See ehh brother, women are sexual beings, they enjoy and appreciate "good sex" more than men.

So when your woman knows you put effort to please her sexually, she feels deeply appreciated.

It's important to note that making her feel like a woman is not all about sex, it also involves little sexy gestures like tapping her ass as she walks past you, as you exclaim some flirty words, or showing her public affections like kissing her on her forehead or cheek in public.

All these little things matter.

There are other ways to appreciate your woman, but I believe you get the point now (In Billionaire Prince White's voice)

Good.  To the next part.


How to Let Her Know You'll Thrive Without Her If She Decides to Leave


1) Don't Apologize Too Quickly or Too Easily.

Nice guys are fond of this. They apologize to women, when they clearly know they're not in the wrong, but they claim to do it, so that peace will reign.

In the short run, they might have that peace, but in the long run they're setting wrong expectations that they're potential doormats to be walked upon.

Listen bro, don't be a nice guy in your relationship, if you're not wrong, there's no need for you to apologize.

But if you know you fucked up, take responsibility, calmly apologize and change your ways.

However if you notice it's those silly games women play, don't apologize for any reason.


2) Don't Hide The Fact That Other Women Want You.

If women flirt with you, don't try to hide it from your woman. But make sure you don't flirt back so openly.

When a woman knows that other women wants her man, she values her man more.


3) Don't Do Everything She Asks Of You.

I've said it several times here that women respect men who tell them "no" sometimes.

It shows them you're not placing them on pedestals, which also means your mate value is high compared to theirs. Hence, you can easily replace them if they slack.

Personally, I don't do like 75% of what women ask me to do. I usually help them with what I know they need, not all those their silly requests.


4) Don't Act All Clingy and Insecure.

When you act needy around a woman, it shows her you lack options. And if you lack options of women, that means women don't really like you.

Therefore she's doing you a favour by dating you. Hence, she starts acting as if she's deputy Jesus to you.

And the best way to stop being clingy or acting insecure is developing the abundance mindset.


Conclusion

Don't give a woman the impression you would be miserable without her, and don't give her the impression that you don't ve nor rate her.

Balance it by letting her know you appreciate and value her, however if she decides to leave, you won't lose sleep over her.


Stay jiggy bro,

Timbel.


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