For several years now, I've been interacting with men concerning their relationship and love matters. And I've found out that most of men's relationship problems start when they make a woman a priority when she doesn't even see them as an option. In other words, in the guy's league the girl is in the top 2; while in the girl's league, the guy is in the relegation battle. This is the reason, I focused so much in building a high self-esteem initially in this group. Because I know that a guy with high self-esteem won't continue chasing after a girl who is not reciprocating his efforts. And some guys think that by throwing money at a girl, she would automatically fall in love and get attracted to them. I'm sorry bro, but attraction doesn't usually work that way. You're likely opening up yourself to be exploited in the long run. Listen brother, no matter how attractive or rich you think you are, some girls would still not rate you. That's just the bitter truth. In life and in love, you win some, you lose some. But you've to move on. So it's your duty to ignore women who don't rate you, and focus more on those who are attracted to you. And if those who are attracted to you aren't up to your taste or spec, then you work more to increase your attractiveness. Because you attract what/who you are. But whatever you do, remember to NEVER make a woman who sees you as an option, a priority. Always stay wise brother, Gerald Dike.